As far as i'm aware, i've not claimed that it's impossible for a person to love someone that has abused them, feel free to quote me though. Not entirely sure why you claim it's "debating games" and that i'm deflecting questions, it's a simple answer, no i don't believe it's impossible for a person to love someone that has abused them. Rather than complaining about what you for some reason consider to be "deflecting questions" and "debating games", you'd be wise to take a look at the way you ask questions. Instead of simply asking me to clarify what i mean in a straighforward matter, you're asking a loaded question where you insinuate that my point of view is that it's impossible. It's exactly the same in regards to your loaded question about
can't possibly want to hurt someone that you love (even if it's in response to them hurting you)?
I'm not sure if it's your general style, or if it's because of the subject, but in my experience it rarely leads to intelligent debates.
The disconnect is the combination, not an isolated part of it, in relation to if you believe a person is telling the truth or not.
https://www.scribd.com/document/335685460/MJ-Estate-Motion-to-Compel-Robson
He's struggling financially, career is failing and he's started selling off Michael Jackson memorabilia, family issues, and he's refused a part in the Cirque du Soleil. A month before the premiere he launches a lawsuit. Is it unlikely that the timing of the lawsuit is to add pressure on the estate to pay a substantial amount of money (obviously not the sum mentioned in the lawsuit) to prevent negative publicity ahead of the premiere ? Safechuck only discovers he's been abused after Robson's lawsuit attempt. There's the contradictions in the lawsuit compared to what he's saying in the documentary, there's the vast amount of redacted emails between him and his family, him not wanting to turn in other related documents (or the book he was working on). Add it up to what he said in 2005, what he said in the following years, how he explains it in the documentary.
Is it plausible that they are telling the truth, obviously. Is it plausible that they aren't telling the truth, obviously.
If people believe otherwise, no worries. Not sure why people believe that the documentary proves anything, that it's the final nail etc, it's more an emotional response to what they are hearing