You are not alone. Pride is overrated, most of the people that would die and suffer in a long conflict don't deserve it and if we are honest at a very basic level, the name of your country doesn't matter. Now I totally get that we have been raised into being proudful and in the glorification of potentially fighting for the flag but those aren't basic needs or requirements for a happy, peaceful life. And those sentiments built around patriotism and pride are the ones that seemingly move Putin, his speech and the subsequent communication reeks of people that can't accept the end of the Russian Empire and then the high stature of the USSR.
I probably sound like a hippie.