I did not say both were to blame, I said it does not matter now, at this point in time, who was to blame, the world has moved on, that ship has sailed etc.
If you look back you will see I argued that when Mrs. May lost three consecutive votes in Parliament, she should have said "OK we cannot agree amongst ourselves so I am withdrawing A50 until we can" That would have given everybody a chance to take another view.
Personally I believe that leavers were never interested in, nor took into account the economics of Brexit, it was a different matter altogether for most of them, that's where the remain side got lost; it was fighting the wrong battle, at the wrong time, with the wrong armaments and only arrived with lucid arguments that might have persuaded enough leavers ( to have influenced the vote) after the battle was over!
Yes, she never really read or understood the pre-nuptial agreement... where have we heard something similar before?